clear thinking
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Instead of predicting how someone might behave or ‘PRESS YOUR BUTTONS’ Don’t take the BORING path that leads you to a usual outcome (Yawn) Come at them instead with curiosity and spontaneity I assure you the outcome will be anything but inevitable.
My earliest memory of ‘Navigating the Unknown’ is of Aunty Anne walking me past the Bee Gees’ old house on Keppel Road to their old school, Oswald Road School. Nurseries did not exist then, so at five this was my ‘first day’ of separation from my familiar and cosy routine life. Imagine titch me, both thrilled and terrified of the tall railings with the looming Edwardian municipal school in the background. It was daunting! I remember […]
When an ‘unresolved matter of opinion or incident ’ appears in conversation especially with family.It sets off a whack a mole trigger in me. Does it for you too? The whack a mole trigger surfaces from deep within us and stops us from negotiating or engaging in positive and enriching […]
All You Need Is Love… and A Love Letter… To Yourself! All you need is loveAll you need is loveAll you need is love, loveLove is all you need I’ve always been a Beatles fan and this title, and chorus is really all you need. (JG I still can’t believe […]
What if I can’t stop living someone else’s life then am I a coward? Several people have asked if I am living someones elses life am I a coward? The answer to this is the same that I have given to those of you who PMed me about my home […]
I know who I am in any one moment and completely understand that I will evolve However, for me to come to this clarity I had to inspect the hat and coats stand I had become Obscured by the many LABELS, EXPECTATIONS and RESPONSIBILITIES my SELF was completely swamped and […]